A collection of articles and Blog posts written in recent years by leading mediator, John Sturrock KC, containing reflections on mediation, negotiation, politics and other topics.
As John explains in the Introduction, all proceeds from this book will go to cancer research.
View a recording of the book launch, in the form of an interview with John on Zoom, here.
“John Sturrock’s outstanding new book, ‘A Mediators Musings,’ is much more powerful than its’ humble title suggests. It is by turns profound and poignant, insightful and useful, current and lasting. Its’ journalistic origins make it easy reading, but Sturrock’s broad ranging experience and active curiosity make it stimulating and provocative, in the best sense of that word, inviting us to notice what we do and how we speak and act when we are in conflict — and prompting us to have the courage, as Sturrock demonstrates, to learn to do better. Nowhere is this more true or more needed than in political conflicts, where Sturrock has sought to play a role in introducing a kinder, more collaborative approach than the one we have seen and experienced. Buy it, read it, practice it – you won’t be disappointed.”
“This little collection of some 30 two or three page opinion pieces is focused on human behaviour when trying to resolve conflicts and overcome problems. Using short anecdotes and often quoting from other inspiring thinkers, the author eloquently suggests many ways in which conflicts, tension and difficulties can more successfully be approached and addressed. There are some novel yet simple ideas; for example, ways to take a transformative approach to intractable issues, and a Universal Declaration of Interdependence. He calls for more empathy, courage, imagination, openness, listening and collaboration in problem solving. Beautifully written. Highly dippable. Full of new ideas. Really thought provocative.”
“John Sturrock is one of the most experienced mediators to be found anywhere. He has been effective in resolving hundreds of disputes all over the world, and is a Distinguished Fellow of the International Academy of Mediators. Not only does he work with parliamentary bodies in the UK, but he also works at local level, promoting respectful dialogues about challenging issues. The flavour of his negotiation skills and profound training in conflict management becomes immediately evident in the accounts and articles in this valuable book.”
It Takes Just One Moment for Things to Change, for Good or Bad
Mediation and Cups of Tea
Kindness and Courage
What’s the Point?
Neil Armstrong Called it on Information Overload
Belief in Excellence Will Take You Far
How Well Do We Perform in Making Scotland a Better Place?
The Abuse of Power Must Be Understood, Not Just Condemned
Paddling Against the Current: Embodied Conflict
A Negotiation Emergency?
Process and Empathy
Knowing How to Negotiate Is an Essential Life Skill
If it Looks Like Mediation?And Other Ramblings…
It’s Not Just About the Moneyand Other Food for Thought for Mediators
Never Give Up: Perseverance In Mediation – And Life?
Optimising the Use of Joint Sessions in Mediation
Mediation: What Makes the Difference?
Moving to Mediation Makes for Earlier Resolution
Mediation: A Cricketing Metaphor
Mediation’s a Bit Like Riding an Electric Bike
Still Set on Making Mediation Mainstream
The Edinburgh Declaration of International Mediators
Mediator Engagement in Politics – and in Other Things We Care About
A Universal Declaration of Interdependence is Needed
The Certainties of the Past Will No Longer Afford Security in the Future
Civility in Politics Should Not Be Too Much to Hope For
Post Election Reflections
Mediation in a Changing Climate? -From Consensus to Confrontation?
Love over Fear – and Holding on to Hope
World leaders must set aside rivalry to fight this scourge
Communication more important than ever